What To Do When You Start Seeing A Guy You Really Like

Have you been on multiple dates with the same guy and feel as if things aren’t progressing the way you’d like? Or are you fresh off of the dating

scene and in a new relationship? When you’re still getting to know each other and things are still new, you may not know what to do at times. Here are

five resources that help when you are feeling uncertain.

Will Having s*x Too Soon Ruin My Relationship?

New relationships are exciting, and there’s big temptation to sleep together early on. Both conventional wisdom and experience show that having s*x

too soon increases the likelihood of ruining a potential relationship. Here’s why. When a man is interested in a woman, it’s usually about s*x at

first. Men are wired to chase and it’s in the chase where genuine connection and affection grow. If you have s*x too soon and want to be in a

committed and lasting relationship, you send the wrong signal and don’t give him the opportunity to know who you really are. It’s in the chase that he

gets to know you beyond your physical attributes. My best advice is to wait till you are married to him.

Am I in Love? The Distinction Between Love, Lust and Infatuation

Are you dating a guy you’re really into? Or are you in a new relationship and not sure if you’re in love? In this situation, it can be easy to confuse

love with lust and infatuation since they share intense feelings. Learn the distinctions between love, lust and infatuation to find out where you’re

at. And answer 20 questions to know for certain if you’re in love or not.

How to Build a Stronger Connection with My Man

This one book, The Four Agreements, when put into practice will transform the relationship you have with yourself and others. If you are looking to

improve your connection with the guy you’re with, the message in this book is simple, yet very profound. When you embrace and live each of the Four

Agreements, you will experience personal freedom. These are the four agreements: Be impeccable with your word. Don’t take anything personally. Don’t

make assumptions. Always do your best.

Relationship Questions to Ask for Long-Term Commitment

Have you been dating a guy you really like for the past few months? Are you thinking you want to be in a long-term relationship with him? If so, check

in with your inner monologue and answer these relationship questions after you have gotten to know him well enough to get a good sense of who he is.

Your answers to these relationship questions will confirm whether or not you’re both compatible for the long run.

Why It’s Not Personal

Ever been in a promising relationship where things have been going really well, only to have him say, “It’s not you, it’s me. I want to keep seeing

you and also think we should see other people.” When I heard these words, we had been dating exclusively for a few months. My heart sank because I

liked him a lot. Our relationship had already gone too far. I wasn’t able to step back and be okay with him being and sleeping with other women. I’ve

come to understand that if a relationship doesn’t work out the way you want, or a guy you like doesn’t ask you out again, or your partner criticizes

you, it’s not personal. It’s what you make it mean.

Christian Home? Top 5 Qualities Godly Women Want In A Godly Man

I've been married to my amazing hubby for over a year; have a precious 7 pound doggy named Bella Dolce, and a degree in English. Go ahead and take a look at my blog, but be sure and come back and read what qualities Godly women find alluring in a man! :)

couple Godly women want a Godly man. Well, at least, those who are not called to be celibate. ;) I know I wanted a man who was Godly….and after dating a few frogs I knew the qualities my man had to possess. But I also remembered that I wasn’t perfect and neither could I expect my future mate to be. I had to be willing to love him through his mistakes and sins as he would love me through mine.

My husband turned out to be an amazing Godly man and our love story still leaves my mouth gaping. It was only though God’s providence and HIS handiwork that we met and became one. So, if you are the hunt looking for your wife….allow the Lord to work and allow His handiwork to be displayed—He loves getting the glory. And don’t forget to check out these qualities that may help you become the man your future wife (or even your wife) needs.

A Servant Leader

Women want to be led. We may act as though we can handle it on our own and as if we have it all under control….but that is just what that is, an act. God said that we would want control over you men (Genesis 3:16). Please men, step up, and lead! A leader should be trustworthy, sacrificial, loving, kind, and gentle (Ephesians 5:25-33, 1 Peter 3:7). Of course, you won’t be perfect, neither will she, but with the strength and empowerment of the Holy Spirit you both can work toward that end.

Humility

We women love to see a humble heart. Of course all of us have pride issues….pride is the root of every sin, but we want to see a man marked with humility. Pride should be something that he is daily giving up to the Lord. We can trust a man who has a humble heart (1 Samuel 2:3, Proverbs 11:2, Proverbs 29:23). We don’t feel secure with a man whose pride is flagrant and who acts as though he has it wired. Who would feel secure? I know, as a woman, I need to know that my husband has flaws….it makes me feel less alone. It also helps me to know how to pray for my man when there is humility and openness. It also makes me significantly more attracted to my husband when I see humility…

A Planner

Are you the type of guy to fly by the seat of your pants? Well, chances are your prospective gal isn’t too appreciative of that. That “fly by the seat of your pants” mentality probably trickles into your relationship making her feel a bit less treasured. May I suggest that you start planning? Women love to see initiative taken (in every area of life). We feel prized when we know there is a plan….why? Well, because we know we have been thought about and we weren’t an afterthought. Wherever your relationship is, it is never too early to start planning!

A Gentleman

Every lady loves a gentleman….and every lady who tells you she doesn’t is lying. Well, either that or she is what my husband and I call a “femi-nazi.” If so, run away, and run away fast. I am from the South so I am accustomed to doors being opened and men stepping out of the way for women. The South has some positives that you men should take note of! Open our doors, keep a tight rein on your tongue (aka, stop the potty mouth!), and treat us like a Princess; because every woman is one deep down.

Hygiene

I know, this is random since I have been only noting character traits. However, this needs to be addressed! I don’t know how many guys I run into on a daily basis that look like they just rolled out of bed. Now, I’m not talking about having to go out and buy a $1,000 wardrobe. I’m talking about taking a shower, getting a haircut, shaving, and being presentable. When you take a lady out on a date don’t wear a t-shirt! I mean, come on. Where are the days of dressing up and looking nice? You don’t have to look like you stepped of a GQ magazine, but you at least must look like you cared enough to iron a button down/polo and gel your hair. Trust me, if you don’t try ….well, we probably won’t try to get back in touch with you.

There are obviously tons of qualities left that I haven’t broached! However, you can find all of them in God’s Word. Crack it open and ask Him (the Holy Spirit) to guide, convict and change you. I promise you, you won’t lack in anything if you ask Him to equip you (James 1:5-6).

No one is perfect, and no one will be until the day we see Jesus face to face. However, in order to woo a woman, you have to ask God to change you and make you a man (and future husband) worthy of that high calling.